Does what we do consistent with the word 'love'?

Word:

(From Second Reading * 1 Cor 12:31—13:13 [or 13:21-30])

Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Order:

Does what we do consistent with the word 'love'?

Reality:

I looked at myself say I love my husband, but I have blamed that he irritated me. That is not love.

Direction:

Letting go of expectations and comparisons. Love him for who he is and believe that God guides him.